禁漫天堂 is not a dating site! page 2 - Muscat forum

hexebella · 2014-08-30T21:14:14+02:00

Discover concerns from expats in Muscat about unwanted advances and the importance of genuine networking, not dating, in the community.

禁漫天堂 is not a dating site!

James ViP

Member since 20 June 2010

Brazil & Canada Expert

JamesViP02 August 2015 18:17:31

#41

11272

scarface_010 wrote:
I respect n totally agree with your opinion/comments but the club/disco thing was rhetorical 鈥� just an example + I think u didn鈥檛 read my last statement 鈥� the problem arises when the guy/girl in the club or the online PM sender refuses to move on - the verdict for that kinda person is GUILTY鈥�
And ya although in the club/disco v get to c n be seen but the total stranger fact is still there even if u r in the club.

Anyways like I said it鈥檚 a complicated issue 鈥� v鈥檒l just keep on arguing about it.

Since I was the author of the CODE OF CONDUCT that is presently used on every one of our national forums, I feel that I have an obligation to respond to the point that you make about "the problem arising when the online PM sender refuses to move on."

First of all the recipient of such unsolicited messages shouldn't have to hope that the PM sender will simply move on. The member sending out unsolicited private messages seeking or offering personal relationships is in violation of our Terms & Conditions of Use and the local forum's CODE OF CONDUCT, and that's the bottom line. He/she (yes we do have rare cases where female members are also responsible for such messages) should not be sending these messages out in the first place, and it is for this reason that we do not hesitate to cancel the membership of offenders.

All of our members, female or male, have the right to expect that we will protect them from being bombarded by unsolicited messages of any kind, not just about relationships. This is something we take very seriously. Expat-blog is constantly making improvements to our Automated Anti-SPAM System and other forms of moderation. Members who are responsible for sending out unsolicited message will continue to find it more difficult to do so, and not end up being banned, with each day that passes. That said, ladies we still do rely heavily on you to REPORT any such messages by clicking on the ACTIONS button on the "Conversation with...." line in the private message section.

Regards,
James
Expat-blog Experts Team

Xeeschan ViP

Member since 15 August 2014

XeeschanViP07 September 2015 19:18:19

#42

2325

Please feel free to report abusive users.

Z

meetali wrote:
give respect to female.禁漫天堂 is for help people.禁漫天堂 is not dating site.

sevda11 Serial expat

Member since 04 November 2012

sevda11Serial expat14 September 2015 17:39:15

#43

206

Omg!!!

seriously still they don't understand聽 its not a date site!!!

LOL its so funny聽

Josephine garcia Member

Member since 02 October 2014

Josephine garciaMember19 September 2015 06:12:16

#44

Hi how are you? How's life in muscat Oman and how's the feeling living in muscat Oman?

Fred Indonesia Expert

Member since 02 August 2009

A smile is the universal welcome.
Max Eastman

FredIndonesia Expert19 September 2015 12:15:39

#45

29633

sevda11 wrote:
Omg!!!

seriously still they don't understand聽 its not a date site!!!

LOL its so funny聽

Probably because they aren't really after a date, more likely a prostitute.
Loads get banned, but the world is heaving with such people so more post.
The good news; the ban button is unlimited.

Xeeschan ViP

Member since 15 August 2014

XeeschanViP19 September 2015 13:28:03

#46

2325

Hi Josephine,

Welcome to Amman forum,
You are off topic, perhaps you could introduce yourself in the 'New Members' thread.

Enjoy
Z

Josephine garcia wrote:
Hi how are you? How's life in muscat Oman and how's the feeling living in muscat Oman?

sezar ghazi Member

Member since 15 April 2015

sezar ghaziMember23 February 2016 19:50:58

#47

Omman very beautiful country welcome

stumpy Laos Expert

Member since 27 November 2009

stumpyLaos Expert24 February 2016 03:18:11

#48

18017

sezar ghazi wrote:
Omman very beautiful country welcome

Welcome to the forum

You are off topic.

Primadonna Jordan Expert

Member since 03 August 2012

Jordan & Netherlands Expert

PrimadonnaJordan Expert24 February 2016 08:07:17

#49

5331

stumpy wrote:
sezar ghazi wrote:
Omman very beautiful country welcome

Welcome to the forum

You are off topic.

He was referring to Josephina who was off topic to begin with....

James2717 New member

Member since 20 January 2016

James2717New member12 March 2016 05:03:58

#50

It's inappropriate聽 to ask someone's contact number for dating purpose especially at the site聽 created to help expats in their聽 crucial needs. But I suggest this problem can b easily tackled if one turns a blindeye to dating invitations from strangers. I m sure they won't irritate with their repeated queries seeing their requests fell on deaf ears.

Faisalemad Member

Member since 12 February 2016

FaisalemadMember05 April 2016 12:34:42

#51

Hi friends

GuestPoster411 Guest

GuestPoster411Guest05 April 2016 14:25:51

#52

Hi Faisalemad,

I think it would be of some help to you to first read the forum's code of conduct. Click the link below :

/forum/viewtopic.php?id=192470

Shahsiddiq9 Member

Member since 13 March 2016

Shahsiddiq9Member07 April 2016 02:31:56

#53

It's my personal opinion that聽 we are overemphasizing聽 this issue here . I don't find anything bad calling dear or asking wellness of the beings " how are you ? "
It's just a message and if some one is not interested in talking then he or she has a block option there or simply no reply. I condemn people who call asking HOW ARE YOU聽 a dating initiative . We often address people with DEAR formally . I am not omani buT plz be respectful to them and others as well . I may be wrong but I take this as an assault literally . Men and women out there no one is forcing us to go out on dating . I support hexabella that this is a not a dating site but sorry hexabella "DEAR"聽 is not a romantic word at least not for me . Plz use the block button next time . And men plz stop repeating such things again I'm future . It's a request .

Thanks
Reafrds

Primadonna Jordan Expert

Member since 03 August 2012

Jordan & Netherlands Expert

PrimadonnaJordan Expert07 April 2016 05:23:35

#54

5331

Shahsiddiq9 wrote:
We often address people with DEAR formally . I am not omani buT plz be respectful to them and others as well."DEAR"聽 is not a romantic word at least not for me .

And this is the moment that cross cultural communication comes in.
For you, as an Indian, it's normal to address someone with "dear" and you see nothing romantic in it. For others, who come from Europe or America for example, it is a romantic word and only be said to them they聽 love.

You said to be respectful to others and I full agree of that but keep in mind that not everyone likes to be called "dear". Certainly not by strangers and what is normal for you, it's not automatically for others.

samir2020 Active member

Member since 04 November 2013

samir2020Active member07 April 2016 07:01:30

#55

Hi,

thank you all聽 for explainning聽 privacy and that this site is not for dating.
I agree with you that using '' DEAR'' can be unrespecteful
Frankley , For the first time I know聽 that the word聽 Dear

Simple Definition of dear :聽 with love and respect
used to address someone you love

Thank you all

Rahul Roy New member

Member since 05 January 2017

Rahul RoyNew member09 January 2017 01:50:31

#56

I fully agree that this is not a dating site ... Pls guys we came from different parts of world.. let's celebrate Nd rock in Muscat..
By the way I'm new in Muscat... Looking for a good group or new friend ship..

Fred Indonesia Expert

Member since 02 August 2009

A smile is the universal welcome.
Max Eastman

FredIndonesia Expert09 January 2017 03:48:23

#57

29633

samir2020 wrote:
Simple Definition of dear :聽 with love and respect
used to address someone you love

Dear sir,
It should be love and/or respect as the word can be used in many ways, some very formal and not intended to be a show of affection, just respect.

Elite Global Hr Solution & Services New member

Member since 23 March 2017

Elite Global Hr Solution & ServicesNew member23 March 2017 09:19:52

#58

Correct

kbrho New member

Member since 12 September 2014

kbrhoNew member27 April 2017 10:02:24

#59

Thumbs up!! well Said

Kumar_life Member

Member since 24 February 2018

Kumar_lifeMember17 March 2018 06:15:57

#60

true words madam

GuestPoster411 Guest

GuestPoster411Guest01 April 2018 06:28:27

#61

You have absolutely right Hexebella!!!!
I don't know to whom l can complain聽 my e'mail box is full with from this unnecessary people's e-mail. I was looking only english teacher for my son.
Expat form is for that wrong address please go other form or .....
Thanks

Fred Indonesia Expert

Member since 02 August 2009

A smile is the universal welcome.
Max Eastman

FredIndonesia Expert01 April 2018 06:47:38

#62

29633

Selinselin wrote:
You have absolutely right Hexebella!!!!
I don't know to whom l can complain聽 my e'mail box is full with from this unnecessary people's e-mail. I was looking only english teacher for my son.
Expat form is for that wrong address please go other form or .....
Thanks

Please report any such PMs so the offenders can be removed from the forum.

hexebella Serial expat

Member since 02 February 2012

hexebellaSerial expat01 April 2018 16:27:45

#63

634

Fred wrote:
Selinselin wrote:
You have absolutely right Hexebella!!!!
I don't know to whom l can complain聽 my e'mail box is full with from this unnecessary people's e-mail. I was looking only english teacher for my son.
Expat form is for that wrong address please go other form or .....
Thanks

Please report any such PMs so the offenders can be removed from the forum.

Exactly, just report these nuissance and they will be dealt accordingly by the admins.

SaraSyed Member

Member since 10 April 2018

SaraSyedMember16 April 2018 18:40:59

#64

I joined this community and after a few days I wasn't sure if I wanted to return to it. I am glad I did, because I am genuinely looking for information about Oman here and it has some great topics and some great people. I am glad Julien, James and a few others have been so supportive and open about females to block and report unwanted messages and people. These behaviours cannot be avoided ladies, so lets help each other out

uemekafavour New member

Member since 26 June 2018

uemekafavourNew member06 July 2018 20:39:47

#65

This ia so correct and more meaningful to the expat community, thanks. Let the expat family adhere to this.

Andyria Romo Member

Member since 23 July 2018

Andyria RomoMember23 July 2018 19:20:49

#66

Thanks for this post

syedhamed2008 New member

Member since 12 August 2018

syedhamed2008New member12 August 2018 12:54:59

#67

nice....

RaniaRanii3 Banned

Member since 05 November 2019

RaniaRanii3Banned11 November 2019 17:13:34

#68

禁漫天堂 isn't for dating...this site is for everybody except not for dating purposes, they made this discussion to help and help different exiles for their concerned uniquely for the new individuals who are new to a specific spots. in the event that you need to search for a date, at that point leave this site.

Fred Indonesia Expert

Member since 02 August 2009

A smile is the universal welcome.
Max Eastman

FredIndonesia Expert11 November 2019 21:03:30

#69

29633

RaniaRanii3 wrote:
禁漫天堂 isn't for dating...this site is for everybody except not for dating purposes, they made this discussion to help and help different exiles for their concerned uniquely for the new individuals who are new to a specific spots. in the event that you need to search for a date, at that point leave this site.

There's a dating section in classifieds - No problems at all there.